Whether you are giving a massage, or are the willing recipient, the thing is, there are a few tips and tricks, which would ensure that your massage experience is much better than what it generally should be. Sometimes, just touching skin is not enough – you need to have a set of tricks which can truly enhance the experience manifold.
Top 5 Tricks to better your Erotic Massage Game
- Create a setting. Erotic massage gets better with the right setting. If you are at home, then turn off the harsh lights, and turn on the soft, dim lights. Use candles if you like, or turn on the lamps on your night stand. You can also burn some incense or use perfumed candles, to enhance the ambiance considerably.
- Play some nice music. A great erotic massage can be infinitely improved with the aid of a nice song which will get the interest higher. Look for smooth jazz, or something sensual, with erotic, slow beats. There are plenty of options for great music – go online and do a bit of research.
- Prepare Yourself. This is important and you should make sure you smell nice and clean, because soon, everything will start getting sweaty. If you have long fingernails, then, while giving the massage, be extra gentle, and ensure that the sharp edges of them does not cause any damage to the recipient at any point. If you are performing an intimate massage, then be extremely aware of your actions.
- Keep a few props handy. A good erotic massage can become a great one with the aid of a few simple ingredients. For example, replace the normal massage oil with some edible oil, and then, use it wisely. Or, use other props to enhance the pleasure. A common one is using something like ice, which can be applied as required. Make sure your partner is comfortable while you are doing what you are, and try to read his/her body language, to see where the denials are nothing more than arousal, or where they are real.
- No distractions allowed. This is a great way of ensuring all the attention is focused on you, and what you are doing. Take the phone and put it on silent mode. If you have the fear of people watching you through windows, just draw the blinds. Try to focus only on the erotic massage and nothing else during the time, and make it a point to have your partner pay all his/her attention to you, and nothing else. This way, you would be able to bond with your partner better, and the massage will have a much better effect on him/her.
Of course, these are very basic and easily doable tips and tricks. You can start by using these for your next erotic massage, and as you improve, you would be able to understand what your massage recipient likes/dislikes, and modify your actions according to their choices.